Tuesday, October 16, 2012

Red Flags

They are not just for football games in grade school gym class, or for summer camp simulated war games.

You know the ones I'm talking about.  The little things about a person  you're involved with, or who you're maybe going to get involved with.  The little things that should be huge warnings ringing RED ALERT! RED ALERT! DANGER, WILL ROBINSON, DANGER!

Except if you're anything like me, you probably blow them off for a while, talking yourself out of being concerned about them, because you're semi-desperate to not be lonely anymore because half the people you graduated high school with are married or engaged to be married or are on their second kid already, and you're alone and have done nothing with your life.

Don't pretend like you don't know what I'm talking about.

Anyway, I have decided to share with you some of the Red Flags I have experienced.  Maybe yours are different.  Or maybe you've noticed some of these things in your own pseudoromance, and you should think about being concerned.